what an interesting weekend i've had so far (it's sunday a little after midnight). hmm, let's see. girls night in. phone conversation where i got called a ho (indirectly). middle-of-the-night rearranging of the apartment. early morning rise for more cleaning. impromtu dance session. brunch. sunshine. starbucks pit stop. wedding. daydreaming. dancing and having fun with the work crew. research. daydream a little more. back home. read emails. blogging here & now - can't wait to see what happens tomorrow.i randomly asked two couples tonight about the secret to a successful relationship. the husband of couple number one said (with a smile from ear to ear) that it wouldn't be appropriate to tell me at the table. whatever. and the wife of couple number two instantly responded, communication. [as soon as she said it] all four continually nodded their heads yes.
got it. but how do i communicate with someone that doesn't give me a chance to respond? i should have asked what's number two . . . got to be patience, right?
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i think the most important thing to make a relationship last and work is having things in common. i don't just mean enjoying the same things (like movies, sports, etc). i mean having the same life goals in common, values, and all that goes along with that and more. if you don't have that the re;ationship will suffer greatly.
to continue: you need to have in common a similar sense of humor, views of life, the way you handle positive and negative life situations. you need a similar temperment......
to make a relationship last he needs to shut the fk up and "do as i say, slave boy!"..and love of course..
you gotta be able to laugh. how can something end if a couple can entertain each other.
How would I know? LOL. Ask Bennie and Eleanor. LOL.
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